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The Editor-in-Chief of Elust and better known to the rest of the world as Mollyxxx

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Ht Honey by a fence
Photo courtesy of HT Honey

Welcome to Elust #73

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #74? Start with the rules, come back September 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

My shame
Has E L James broken erotica?
Sex Addiction is a Scam

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Goodbye, I’m Gone
sharing my inspiration

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*

Eroticon 2015 Pay it forward

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days.

Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

 

Erotic Non-Fiction

Watching you
His Vulnerability Creates Magic.
It really was a Wicked Wednesday
Paper
His First Cuckold Experience
Humiliation of an ex-Nazi submissive 53
The Pole Dancer

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Gentleman Is the Opposite of Feminist
My Criteria for Rating Sex

Erotic Fiction

The Hunt’s Spectators
Peeping Tom
By the Sea, Part 1
Have You Been Naughty?
The Ritual
Triple Dog Dare
Eye Spy
Bound For Pleasure
Daddy Wants to Play

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Dealing With A Husband Who Can’t Cum
The Menopause Diaries
Balancing the Scales
On Cheating
On language learning and sex

Writing About Writing

What I Intend When I Write About Sex
Writing Erotica as a Disabled Top

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

What else could be done with BDSM checklists?
Crafting Your Craft: Serving With Passion
Social Masochist
The Last Word
“Only submissive to someone special”

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Elust #73 Open for Submissions

August this year means Eroticon 2015 for us. So we are here in Bristol sharing what we know and learning from the best people in erotic writing. So share all the amazing stuff you have while we learn things to share with you!

After many requests I have finally written up what happens here at Elust after you make your submission. Have a read and marvel that we manage it at all. How it all happens.

We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.

 

Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month.

Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to Elust be sure to read the About Page as well as the Rules.

If you don’t have words for us, maybe you have a sexy picture you’d like to share instead. 3 are chosen each month and you can submit yours on the Photo Submission page.

Please note that if you do not receive a confirmation email we probably have not received your submission.

If you do not get a confirmation email from us please send us an email at questions@elustsexblogs.com and we will get back to you as soon as possible on your entry. You might want to also consider white listing that email address as well as mail@elustsexblogs.com and submissions@elustsexblogs.com. Well enough of the annoying tech stuff and back to the hot, sultry and very sexy work that you share with us here.

 

Mollyxxx

An Erotic Adventure Image
Photo courtesy of Tabitha Rayne

Welcome to Elust #72

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #73? Start with the rules, come back August 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Broken
Invisible Pride: Bi Erasure
Disabled Gentleman

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Erotic Fiction: “Passerby”
Overcoming resistance

~ Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*

#AskELJames: The Poignant & Profitable Martyrdom of E.L. James

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days.

Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

 

Sex News,Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Tits, Ass, Monogamy, and Muscles
Numbers
ATVOD’s Preliminary View

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Perfect Stranger
Remembering my first sex toy
On Relationship Anarchy
In Defense of Big Toys
Unpacking Assumptions About Sex and Stoneness
A Thousand Miles
Six Important Reasons Not to Fake an Orgasm
Flying With Sex Toys
What is your preferred way to orgasm?
First

Erotic Fiction

kotw: anonymous sex
Breathe
Intrusion
A Firm Hand and Lessons
The Sounds Of The Night
Office Assistant

Events

Happy Bloomsday! What Would Molly Do?
Bare Reality: 100 women and their breasts

Poetry

Deacon Jones: A Lusty Limerick

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Trust Me: On Edge Play in Erotica
Come on Command

Erotic Non-Fiction

Chasing Orgasms
Did You Just Laugh At My Instructions?
I’m always going to get mine.
Humiliation of an ex-Nazi submissive 52
that was intense

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The casual dating lifestyle

One of the greatest freedoms we have in our modern lifestyle is to decide how we want to approach the complex phenomenon which is dating. Whilst we live in a society which encourages family values via long-term commitment, our lifestyle sometimes does not give us the time for such life-lasting undertaking. This is why casual dating remains a very viable lifestyle for those of us who lack the time or are simply not interested in getting bind into such big obligation.

Low commitment

One of the greatest appeal about casual dating is that it asks for little commitment on our behalves. This is the main aspect of being into a long-term relationship which a lot of us still have issues with. After all, just because we are interested in spending some time dating does not mean that we have figured out our life-plans yet. Commitment is a great thing for those people who can assume it, but getting into a long-term pledge without really meaning it is the last thing a person should ever do. It is more honest to just say that we are not interested in committing rather than wasting someone else’s time. In fact, the best approach to dating is to find someone who wants the same thing that we do, whether it is a long term commitment or simply a bit of fun. It is this reciprocity between two partners which makes any type of relationship successful, whether it is for life or just for the one night only.

A lot of fun

Of course long term relationships will bring their lot of good times onto the table, but the type of fun we look for with casual dates is different. It is the sort of fun which one gets to share with different partners, without the added edges of commitment. With different partners, we can truly have fun without our obligations suddenly shining out and bringing us down. Those of us with a ridiculously hectic work schedule will appreciate having such fun, as it really takes away some of the stresses imposed by our busy lifestyles.

Meeting new people

Whilst some of us embrace the idea of meeting less people but knowing them better, others will prefer the idea of getting to know many different people without the same sort of intensity. There is certainly something very exciting about discovering a new dating partner and it is one of the more thrilling aspect of casual dating. In fact, this exhilaration of discovering someone new is one which often fades out after spending enough time with the same partner. In our modern days, using affair dating sites is really quite the exciting endeavour. Looking for potential casual partners, we get to feel the thrill of discovering new people and the electrifying sensation of looking forwards to having fun with them. Casual dating is now a truly well-established lifestyle available to those who decide it is the right thing for them, and there is no shortage of potential future-partners out there.