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Feb 012013
 
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Hello and welcome to e[lust] #43. We are so very glad that you have decided to continue on with e[lust] and look forward to seeing what all of our favourite sex bloggers have to offer for February. So hop on over to the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to e[lust] be sure to read the About Page as well as the Rules.

For the time being e[lust] will run as it always has, but we are hoping to add some exciting changes. If you have any ideas that you’d like to suggest for e[lust], then please do let us know.

On a final note we would like to thank Dangerous Lilly for starting and running e[lust]. She has built an amazing community that we hope to expand. Thank you for trusting us with your creation.

Mollyxxx

P.S. Please remember that the submissions page is open from today until the 7th. Because e[lust] was not open for December we are extending the allowed post period to be from December 8th 2012 through February 7th 2013.

 

Jan 092013
 
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Hello everyone! This is just a short update about the future of e[lust] – things will continue on! Molly, whom I’m sure nearly all of you know, is now the new site owner and e[lust] editor. So in case you’ve abstained from participating in e[lust] due to your personal feelings for me (Lilly) then you can now breathe a sigh of relief that a new leader has been named!

This post is my last, official duty for e[lust]. The Twitter account and the Gmail accounts will remain the same and for now the way e[lust] is run will remain the same – just all will be run my Molly instead of me. You can expect submissions to open up on February 1st for a new edition, so keep your eyes open!

This is Lilly, signing off officially. Goodbye all!

Dec 152012
 
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Photo courtesy of Penny

Welcome to e[lust] - The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at e[lust]. Please check the site in January to find out if e[lust] will be continuing under a new owner, or not. Thanks for participating!

~ This Week’s Top Three Posts ~

My Stint as an Escort

Gone Daddy Gone

Showing My Spots

~ e[lust] Editress ~

Curtain Call

~ Featured Post (Lilly’s Pick) ~ 

Thoughts: Safe Words

All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

 Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Ask Aunty Dee: Anal Play and Buttplugs
Being sexy
I’m Monogamish, Apparently
Orgasms, Spontaneous
Profoundly in love
Rape Fantasies
Why Don’t You Go Fuck Yourself?

Kink & Fetish

An Unexpected Gift
Cathartic Sex
Confession: The Stalking of a Doll
He got off to my laugh
Kink Guide to Fifty Shades Darker: conclusion
Kinky erotica from the top’s point of view
Pain and Collars
Pegging Prep for Virgin Territory
The Cowboy (1 of 4)

Sex News, Interviews, Politics & Humor

a different kind of scene

Erotic Writing

Desperation
Dream Lover
Everything You Give
From the Inside
Get Back in Line
Just Hands
Lust in the Dunes – Part VII: The Love Elite
nching on “Special K”
On The Phone
Out of the Blue
Tease
Take Two
The Stranger
White Stockings, White Stockings She Wore
What if?
Writing Challenge – A Question

Nov 192012
 
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Ironically, it seems that I start pondering the future of e[lust] at the same time every year. Last year I considered it, but mainly because things weren’t running smoothly. A wonderful suggestion to change the dates to static dates every month made things run a lot better, I think.

My reluctance to stay in the sex blogging world in even just a blogging capacity doesn’t help my own desire to keep running e[lust]. It’s just more work than it’s worth to me anymore. It’s a part-time job, basically, except that it has turned into charity. I used to make money with advertising but thanks to Google’s new rules of the game, the type of advertising I was willing to put up with (unobtrusive sidebar text links) has gone the way of the dodo bird. And while I don’t do this for the money, the thrill is gone and it has been replaced with obligation. In essence…a job. And when you’re not being paid for a job, the willingness and desire to continue to do it plummet greatly. At this rate, I’ll be out money. The domain is paid for in advance but it’s hosting that keeps it active and live. All in all, it costs me around $100 $250 -because I’m an idiot and forgot about the extras I’ve added on, like the RSS and mailing list stuff- to keep it running per year. But that is just to keep the lights on, that isn’t enough to keep the cranky secretary on.

I believe that the hosting renewed for another year recently so oh well. I’m out that. But after this time next year, e[lust] will cease to exist. Unlike Sugasm, I just can’t see the point in keeping up with paying for hosting on a site that isn’t active, the links contained within are slowly dying off anyways, and it isn’t generating revenue.

The final edition of e[lust] will be coming up shortly, in December.

What happens after that? There are a few options as I see it:

1. Nothing. The site lays dormant until hosting runs out and then it is gone.

2. I sell the whole site, as it is, for a fair lump sum. I transfer the domain (and the gmail accounts) to someone else who will run it and keep it as a sex blogger digest. I’d rather sell it to a fellow, established blogger so I know that my creation won’t turn into a porn aggregator but I won’t put any real conditions on the future editions once it’s no longer mine.  3 years ago when Sugasm officially ended, I would have rather had the option to own Sugasm and keep the ball rolling on the existing readership and credentials; it was harder to build something from scratch. (Note: If you’re interested in this option, please feel free to contact me. I don’t have a set price yet, I still need to figure that out – but if it’s something you’re interested in, let me know sooner than later. I likely will not start serious talks on this until January)

3. I find a few companies willing to “sponsor” each monthly edition; they will get a banner and a text link at the bottom of the edition. I don’t want to have to hunt for sponsors every month so this would have to be prepaid and all that – if I get a year’s worth between a few companies, that is. This information will not be posted on other people’s blogs, however, just here. I will also find a few willing souls to completely take over the reigns of putting out an edition for every other month. I’ll do the other every month. (For this option to work, I  need to have everything on board – a few companies lined up and a few reliable people giving firm commitments. I don’t want to scramble month to month to line things up)

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