One night stands: don’t rush!

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So we have all heard about one night stands, you know those naughty encounters that only last for that one night only. Some of us have tried it before, even sometimes making it a lifestyle; whilst others still see it as a fantasy that they wish to happen. The truth is that getting laid with no strings isn’t the hardest thing to do, especially now that there are so many sex dating sites out there. But even though it sounds like something that happens on the moment, there are still a few things you should prepare yourself for. In other words: don’t rush to go to your first one night stand; instead try to prepare yourself for it. There are a few things you can do before the fact that will make you have a better time.

Tip#1 – Pick the right dating site

The first thing you will want to do is to make sure that you are searching for the right people in the right place. So if you’re using a traditional dating site, you might find that people reject your offers because a lot of those people are there searching for romance rather than sex. It might seem like an obvious thing to say but you’re better off looking around at all the different sex dating sites available on the web. Some of those sites specialise with certain niches such as BDSM, mature partners, or even local sex dating; so you need to pick up whichever works better for you. Local dating is good if you don’t want to wait too long, you might even be able to fuck tonight on Local Bangs or other sites like that one. But even if you have an opportunity to make things happen today, you will want to make sure you get a bit familiar with your potential future partner first. Which leads us to the next bit of advice.

Tip#2 – Get to know the people

Now you don’t need to know everything about a person before sleeping with them, and sometimes the less you know the naughtier it feels. But you need to make sure that at the very least, the two of you will have some kind of compatibility in bed. So chat away, talk about the things you want to do; your favourite positions and practices… and ask your potential partner about what they like to do. It is not just about you but also about the other person, and a few little naughty chats will allow the both of you to determine if it’s a good idea that you get together at the first place. Basically you don’t want to walk in there completely blind, instead you will have a good idea of how things will proceed and the two of you will be better off for it.

Tip#3 – Contain your horniness

It is perfectly understandable that you will feel all hot and excited when you’re starting to chat with someone online about sex. You feel all warm and fuzzy in many places of your body, with your blood rushing out of your head and into your other body parts. But here is the thing: you don’t really know who you are talking too yet. They are most likely genuine but they could be some scammer with completely different intentions than you think. When you’re feeling horny, you’re not the best judge of any situation. Now we’re not trying to kill your vibe or scare you against online dating. It is not just about spotting scammers but also about making sure that your potential partner wants to do things you are okay with. When you’re excited you forget to set the rules, and it is best to talk about what is acceptable and what is not. If you can keep it in your pants in the early stages, chances are you will be able to show more control later on in the bedroom.

You get the idea: failing to set things up is like setting yourself up to fail. It sounds harsh but a few conversations before the act can make the difference between a good one night stand and a bad one. You don’t want to have a bad one, it might put you off a very good thing!

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