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Sex and honesty

There are a lot of situations in life that put your honesty and integrity to the test, and sex is no exception. It might sound out of order, but a lot of people will lie to someone just so that they can get laid; that is simply the reality in which we live. The typical example is for people to pretend they feel love when all they want to do is to get down to the naughty business. Some people think it is okay to do this, but really it is not acceptable, and for many reasons. Some lies might be okay, but the ones that end up hurting people are the worst. The bottom line is: if you want sex then you should just say so, don’t go around messing with other people’s feelings.

Why do people lie?

The most direct answer to this is as follows: people think they cannot get what they want by being honest; instead they feel like lying gives them a better chance. This is why some people lie about themselves on their online dating profiles; with people going as far as posting a photo that is not even themselves. It is crazy that this is how some people think; and it can partly be explained by the fact that obtaining anything without cheating is always more difficult. People want to take shortcuts rather than make the effort it takes; but they don’t think about the consequences. The truth is that doing things the wrong way will always lead to complications further down the line. People lie to make things easier, but they will regret it when it backfires; because all actions have consequences.

The consequences of lying

When someone has deeper feelings for you, it can put them in a vulnerable position where they are susceptible to get manipulated. This is why lying about love is the worst thing you could do: you’re exploiting someone’s feelings to your ends without any worry on the consequences it will have on that person. You might just think: “it’s okay, they’ll get over it”; but trust us, they won’t. When people get hurt, they take all of that pain with them and they will often pass it back onto others. Basically, one the reasons it can be difficult to find a partner or even get laid is because they’ve been lied to in the past. The lies of someone else will have an indirect influence on other people, and it makes the world worse than it needs to be. If on the other side people where more honest, then a lot of us wouldn’t struggle so hard. More lies just make for a worst world to live in, and it couldn’t be truer for sex.

No need to lie

It is really sad that people think that lying will get them further with dating. These days if you want to get laid you only need to register to a sex dating site like sexwithnostrings and you will meet plenty of people that just want sex, no need to lie to them as they want the same thing you do. It is frankly weird that people feel they would have to lie when things are made so easy; and one can only assume that some people just feel naturally compelled to do so. Maybe it is because insecurities are firmly rooted within their personality, but this is exactly why things like sex dating exist. Sure you will want to omit a few of your more personal details so as to keep some anonymity, but you don’t need to lie about your intentions.

Change your ways

We understand that life isn’t perfect, and that you don’t always get what you want by simply asking. However we will say this: the more you lie, the more guilt you will feel, the unhappier you will be. Online sex dating is giving all of us a chance to be ourselves so you should give it a try. It’s never too late to do the right thing, and you have to forgive yourself for your past transgressions if you want to move towards a more positive lifestyle. So go online, and try to approach people by telling them what you truly want. Sure you will get more rejections as you won’t be telling people what they want to hear; but the people that get in touch with you will be in it for who you really are. It feels so much better to be successful when you are honest, it just feels right and the sex is even better for it. So be honest, it will get you further and you will feel great for it!

 

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Welcome to Elust 94

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #95 Start with the rules, come back June 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Always Coming Second

Balance

THREESOME – the card game

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

The #500words Project ~ 2

#Pussy Pride

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

No Eligible Posts

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

 

Erotic Fiction

Forgiven
Finally A Prostitute
On Display
World Traveller
Red
Ms. Mona’s Online Dating School for Dudes

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

BDSM is Not My Source for Life.
Pure and Simple
Discussing Consent & Scene Negotiation

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

You can
All for one, or one for all…
He haunts me.

Erotic Non-Fiction

Oh no, I’m not.
the shoot begins
Raylene’s pain does not matter

Poetry

-05.05.17_00:21-
White Tee Shirt

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Orgasm Challenge

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

A Kink Couple Fantasize About the Waitstaff

 

 

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We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.

 

Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month.

Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to Elust be sure to read the About Page as well as the Rules.

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