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Elust has always striven to bring you the best peer reviewed content and will continue to do so even with the ongoing crack down on adult content. With that in mind I would like to direct your attention to #SoSS or Share our Shit Saturday a brainstorm of Girl on the Net and this idea was joined and amplified by the Grand Old Man of sex blogging Bacchus of Erosblog Our very own Editor in chief here at Elust, Molly Moore revived her Trolling the Net series, and Candysnatch Reviews and Scanderella just to name a few others have joined in as well.

So here is our suggestion to you, the point of Elust is to share your work with a larger audience, so we would like to ask all of you to spread the word as far and wide as you can so that can all support each other in overcoming the suppression of our content.

We here at Elust believe that the world is a better, more informed, more sex positive place because of the work that all of you do. So let’s not stop now.

@domsigns

We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.

Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month.

Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to Elust be sure to read the About Page as well as the Rules.

If you don’t have words for us, maybe you have a sexy picture you’d like to share instead. 3 are chosen each month and you can submit yours on the Photo Submission page.

Please note that if you do not receive a confirmation email we probably have not received your submission.

If you do not get a confirmation email from us please send us an email at questions@elustsexblogs.com and we will get back to you as soon as possible on your entry. You might want to also consider white listing that email address as well as mail@elustsexblogs.com and submissions@elustsexblogs.com. Well enough of the annoying tech stuff and back to the hot, sultry and very sexy work that you share with us here.

 

Mollyxxx

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Elust 101 Open for Submissions

Elust has always striven to bring you the best peer reviewed content and will continue to do so even with the ongoing crack down on adult content. With that in mind I would like to direct your attention to #SoSS or Share our Shit Saturday a brainstorm of Girl on the Net and this idea was joined and amplified by the Grand Old Man of sex blogging Bacchus of Erosblog Our very own Editor in chief here at Elust, Molly Moore revived her Trolling the Net series, and Candysnatch Reviews and Scanderella just to name a few others have joined in as well.

So here is our suggestion to you, the point of Elust is to share your work with a larger audience, so we would like to ask all of you to spread the word as far and wide as you can so that can all support each other in overcoming the suppression of our content.

We here at Elust believe that the world is a better, more informed, more sex positive place because of the work that all of you do. So let’s not stop now.

@domsigns

We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.

Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month.

Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to Elust be sure to read the About Page as well as the Rules.

If you don’t have words for us, maybe you have a sexy picture you’d like to share instead. 3 are chosen each month and you can submit yours on the Photo Submission page.

Please note that if you do not receive a confirmation email we probably have not received your submission.

If you do not get a confirmation email from us please send us an email at questions@elustsexblogs.com and we will get back to you as soon as possible on your entry. You might want to also consider white listing that email address as well as mail@elustsexblogs.com and submissions@elustsexblogs.com. Well enough of the annoying tech stuff and back to the hot, sultry and very sexy work that you share with us here.

 

Mollyxxx

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Elust 100 Open for Submissions

This is a rather big milestone, or at least we think so. 100 months of Elust, or put another way, 8.3333333 years of the best of sex writing on the web. Elust has always striven to bring you the best peer reviewed content and will continue to do so even with the ongoing crack down on adult content.  With that in mind I would like to direct your attention to #SoSS or Share our Shit Saturday a brainstorm of Girl on the Net and this idea was joined and amplified by the Grand Old Man of sex blogging Bacchus of Erosblog Our very own Editor in chief here at Elust, Molly Moore revived her Trolling the Net series, and Candysnatch Reviews and Scanderella just to name a few others have joined in as well.

So here is our suggestion to you, the point of Elust is to share your work with a larger audience, so in honor of 100 editions of Elust we would like to ask all of you to spread the word as far and wide as you can so that can all support each other in overcoming the suppression of our content.

We here at Elust believe that the world is a better, more informed, more sex positive place because of the work that all of you do. So let’s not stop now.

@domsigns

We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.

Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month.

Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to Elust be sure to read the About Page as well as the Rules.

If you don’t have words for us, maybe you have a sexy picture you’d like to share instead. 3 are chosen each month and you can submit yours on the Photo Submission page.

Please note that if you do not receive a confirmation email we probably have not received your submission.

If you do not get a confirmation email from us please send us an email at questions@elustsexblogs.com and we will get back to you as soon as possible on your entry. You might want to also consider white listing that email address as well as mail@elustsexblogs.com and submissions@elustsexblogs.com. Well enough of the annoying tech stuff and back to the hot, sultry and very sexy work that you share with us here.

 

Mollyxxx

Handling jealousy in an open relationship

Do you remember all those images of the 1960’s, where sexual liberation was rife and people practiced free-love? These days people tend to refer to it as an ‘open relationship’, so the practice is far from dying. However the idea of sharing partners, or having your partner being with someone else can be too much to deal with; which is probably why there are only so many people who can actually handle that approach to coupling. It won’t take very long for feelings of jealousy to settle in; so how does one come to peace with such an ambiguous concept?

Sharing is caring?

You’ve most likely heard that saying before, but it mainly seems to apply to sharing money, food or other items with your friends. It can also apply to charity, where you pass along things that other people cannot afford. What most people don’t expect is for it to be relevant to sharing their actual partner. Let’s say your best friend hasn’t been getting laid in a while, would you be so generous as to suggest them they can have fun with your girlfriend or boyfriend? Most importantly, would your partner be up for it? It seems that for this to work, both partners have to be on the same page.

A mutual agreement

No one likes to be cheated on, but what if this is something you’ve discussed and agreed on? After all it is true that people can get bored of each other over time, and spicing things up can bring some life back into a relationship. It comes down to this, can you accept that someone else could give pleasure to your partner and have a good time with them, all the while not losing the love and respect your partner has for you. In other words, can you sleep around with other people and come back to your relationship afterwards? As long as you set some rules and boundaries, it could actually work.

Finding new partners

It seems that the key to having an open relationship is to make sure that you or your partner discuss what happens if you fall in love with your other lovers. So if you decide to have fun, maybe you should do it with people you don’t know so well; as opposed to getting your close friends involved. That way you will limit the amount of emotional involvement; and you will also keep your friendships intact. Ideally you will meet new potential partners when you go on a night out, or even approach people by using adult dating websites. You can find horny women near you, or even horny men, all it generally takes is to find the right site. This will all help to keep your fun at a casual level.

Still feeling jealousy?

Some people love to see their partner having fun with someone else, there is just something about it that makes us tick. It really depends on whether you are able to draw a line between your private emotional life and your sex life. If you trust your partner and you know they will stick with you, then you might not have to feel so jealous. Even though they are taking pleasure from someone else, you are still involved in the act so you are still part of the reason why your partner is having such good time. It is different from someone having an affair, where your partner would actually be getting pleasure behind your back without your involvement. You would therefore have good reasons to feel jealous, but in the case of sharing and doing it all out of your own free will; you can stay in control of it all. Let’s face it, couples could eventually get bored, so whilst you might not consider an open relationship just yet, maybe it will be a good thing to look into further down the line!

 

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