By Quinn Rhodes a picture of a Doxy on a white hotel bed for Elust 113

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Welcome to Elust 113

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #114? Start with the rules, come back January1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

The Source of Control

Town Use

FOMO is NOT how my vagina feels about sex.

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

The Weight of my Red Self

Mistletoe kisses

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

If you want a job done…

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

 

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Figuring Out Oral Sex
Why I Need Non-Monogamy in My Polyamory
A Love of Photography
Third trimester sex
Nights like Tonight
Finding a D/s partner is one long night

Erotic Non-Fiction

On Subspace
Petting
Control Takes Many Forms
The New Hood – a peek inside
The Past Smells of Men
Men in Panties

Erotic Fiction

Tease Me Under the Mistletoe
Art Class
Total Control
men in panties
In the Red Room
All Slippery and Floaty
Amour

Writing About Writing

The Writing on the Wall
Writing is the painting of the voice.

Body Talk and Sexual Health

Connection, No Sex

Writing About Writing

29 Blog Maintenance Things You Can Do

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

Champagne boys apply here
The other end of the cane
Giving me a frill

Poetry

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Elust

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Elust 113 Open for Submissions

 

Elust has always striven to bring you the best peer reviewed content and will continue to do so even with the ongoing crack down on adult content. With that in mind I would like to direct your attention to #SoSS or Share our Shit Saturday a brainstorm of Girl on the Net and this idea was joined and amplified by the Grand Old Man of sex blogging Bacchus of Erosblog Our very own Editor in chief here at Elust, Molly Moore revived her Trolling the Net series, and Candysnatch Reviews and Scanderella just to name a few others have joined in as well.

So here is our suggestion to you, the point of Elust is to share your work with a larger audience, so we would like to ask all of you to spread the word as far and wide as you can so that can all support each other in overcoming the suppression of our content.

We here at Elust believe that the world is a better, more informed, more sex positive place because of the work that all of you do. So let’s not stop now.

@domsigns

We also work very hard for you here at Elust and if you would like to say thank you here is a way that you can do that.

We have added a Category Guide page to help you select the proper place for your submission. If you have any suggestions on how we can improve Elust please feel free to drop us a line.

Don’t forget to visit SexBytes to add and vote on your favorite for Readers Choice this month.

Stop by the Submission Page and show us what you’ve got. If you are new to Elust be sure to read the About Page as well as the Rules.

If you don’t have words for us, maybe you have a sexy picture you’d like to share instead. 3 are chosen each month and you can submit yours on the Photo Submission page.

Please note that if you do not receive a confirmation email we probably have not received your submission.

We have had particular issues with AOL, Hotmail, and Live.com email addresses ending up in Spam. Please consider using a different email account.

If you do not get a confirmation email from us please send us an email at questions@elustsexblogs.com and we will get back to you as soon as possible on your entry. You might want to also consider white listing that email address as well as mail@elustsexblogs.com and submissions@elustsexblogs.com. Well enough of the annoying tech stuff and back to the hot, sultry and very sexy work that you share with us here.

 

Mollyxxx

Why Is BDSM Dating Getting So Popular?

One of the most enjoyable sexual activities that you can engage in is BDSM. The term encompasses a lot of different activities but it stands for Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism. Sometimes you will see the abbreviation with additional terms because it encompasses so many activities.

Here are just a few activities that might be involved:

  • Bondage
  • Impact Play
  • Dom/sub Play
  • Humiliation
  • Feminization

This list could be multiplied times a hundred or more and you probably could still come up with other kinks that fit into BDSM.

BDSM has always been a popular pastime. People have been engaging in it for years. That being said, over the last several years a lot interest has been generated in BDSM activities. Why is that? Let’s take a look.

Fifty Shades Of Grey

Books and movies such as Fifty Shades of Grey are being sent around. People are enjoying them and getting hooked. Even people who would have never considered BDSM or knew what it was, have started to learn. While Fifty Shades of Grey is not true BDSM, many people don’t know that. It is a starting place.

Many of the readers or watchers of the famous series have gone on to explore the world of BDSM through the internet and through other sources.

Increase of BDSM Websites

The internet has always had sex related websites. That being said, in order to find websites, such as those dedicated toward BDSM, you would have to do a fair amount of digging. Now that Google knows almost everything about the internet, you can use it to find BDSM websites.

People who are curious can start learning with a simple Google Search. We aren’t even talking about BDSM dating sites. What we are talking about here are sites that educate you on BDSM. That help instruct you on how to perform certain practices.

It isn’t just that these websites are becoming easier to find, WordPress and other platforms are encouraging people to come up with their own sites. Some of those are oriented towards BDSM.

BDSM Dating Sites

One of the changes to dating websites in the last few years, is that they have started to become specialized. You can find dating sites for college students, for Christians, and for similar areas. Another area that has had specialized dating sites is BDSM dating sites.

If you want to find some of the best BDSM dating sites in the industry, you should take a look at BDSM Dating Only. BDSM Dating Only is one off the major BDSM dating sites. With millions of users and a good interface, people have turned to the site regularly. You can too.

These BDSM dating sites have done a lot for the community. You no longer have to settle for someone who doesn’t like the same BDSM acts as you. Or struggle to find someone that does. Instead you can use filters and dedicated BDSM dating sites to find the perfect match. This has made a lot of people more comfortable trying out BDSM.

People Are More Open-Minded

People used to be shamed for unusual sexual desires. One of those desires was BDSM. In the last few years society has really changed. Now people are much more open about what they enjoy doing. This is because we have been striving to judge each other less and be better humans.

It was also traditionally thought that those who enjoyed BDSM had something wrong with them. Now we know better. Psychology has shown that those who enjoy BDSM typically have nothing wrong with them. But like with any group, there are always those that are going to stick out for being “bad”.

Despite the almost universal urge to be better humans, you will still encounter people who don’t like BDSM and think it is weird. Don’t let that shame you. Many people who enjoy BDSM have found that there is nothing to be ashamed of when someone tries to put you down. You’re not the one doing wrong.

BDSM has grown in popularity massively over the last ten or so years. In the last several years, that growth has been even bigger. People enjoy the various activities that make up BDSM, as they should. It is a healthy lifestyle that offers a lot for everyone.

 

This has been a sponsored post.

Elust 112 Header Cara Thereon naked on the sofa

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Welcome to Elust 112

The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #113? Start with the rules, come back December 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!

 

~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~

Broken Idol

So Your Partner Has Feelings for Someone Else

Vagina, vag-OWW-NO

~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~

Responsibilities of erotic fiction characters
Pause on Red

~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~

Hell for leather

*You really should consider adding your popular posts here too*
All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “read more…” tag is allowable after this point. Thank you, and enjoy!

 

Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships

Relax Baby…We Got This.
Harry Potter Cured a Phobia My Abuser Gave Me
I didn’t mean to write this.

Erotic Fiction

Tied Up Tuesday
Andromeda
Scattered Lilies
My Eyes Adored You
Marks
caught in his web
Oh what a tangled web…
A Fine White Thread
The Doll’s Face
The Cold Breath of Night
…and Pause

Sex News, Opinion, Interviews, Politics & Humor

Men should STFU

Thoughts & Advice on Kink & Fetish

One decision from a totally different life.
The changing nature of my submission

Erotic Non-Fiction

Feathers
Hmnh. Well, that was different.
Mid-Locktober Confessions/Punishment

Poetry

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Blogging

Blogging and me

Writing About Writing

Rage & happies, #dommelife

 

Elust